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Dinner and A Movie–It’s Not What You Think.

By Debi Walter | Romance

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Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, and I’ve talked about it often being our favorite holiday of the year. Why? Because it’s a day set apart for romancing my favorite person in the world–my husband.

Do you think of romance as a privilege? Not as something on your ever-growing list of Things You Need To Improve?

Tom and I have recently gone through some events that have made us appreciate every minute we get to spend together. It is a privilege to have one person in this life with whom you can lavish your love. I’ve heard it said that many never know how much something meant to them until it was gone. May that not be true of our marriages. Life is too short–and we need to make the most of every opportunity to express our love in tangible ways.

Which brings me to this month’s post and my chance to spur you on with ideas that are fun, and not difficult to pull off.

Ask an assortment of couples what a date night looks like to them, and more often than not you’ll hear this phrase: Dinner and a Movie. Tom and I like to go to the movies, but we rarely do on date nights. Why? Simply because we like to talk and the people in the movie theater don’t like it when we do. 🙂

I would like to share with you a new twist on Dinner and a Movie.

Instead of going to the movies, watch the movie at home. Instead of eating dinner out, prepare a meal that goes along with the movie. It makes your meal an extension of the whole movie experience. We’ve done this a couple of times and they have ended up being some of our favorite dates.

Not sure how to pull this off? Well, not to worry–we’re not going to leave you stranded. Choose from the following list and have fun planning your next rendezvous–right in your own living room. It may become a regular event.

Six Dinner and a Movie Dates At Home

6. The Godfather and A Sicilian Dinner for Two: Tomato-Sausage Sauce, Antipasto Salad, Sicilian Cannoli

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5. When Harry Met Sally and Katz’s Deli Dinner for Two: Pastrami Sandwich, Coconut Cake with Chocolate Sauce on the side.

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4. The Notebook and Candlelit Crab Boil for Two: Crab Boil, Fingerling Potato Salad, Buttered Popcorn Ice Cream Sundae

3. Sixteen Candles and Updated Cafeteria Fare for Two: Grass-Fed Beef Meatloaf in a Bacon Blanket, Tater Tots with Truffles, Braised Carrots with Crisp Sage, Golden Cake with Chocolate Sour Cream Frosting

2. Breakfast at Tiffany’s and Pain Au Chocolat: There were so many delicious recipes to choose from for breakfast, I made a link for you to pick from the list.

1. You’ve Got Mail – Sushi and a selection from Cafe’ Lalo‘s menu. This date provides ideas on where to buy the dishes so you don’t have to cook.

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I hope this gets you thinking of ways to make a Dinner and a Movie date something special.

Bon Appetit!

Photos provided by Delish.com

 

About the Author

Tom and Debi Walter have been cultivating their romantic vineyard for most of their 36 years of marriage. It has been their conviction from the start. Now they are passionate about helping other couples discover the rich harvest of romance available to them no matter the current season. Through their marriage blog, The Romantic Vineyard established in 2008, they provide regular posts about growing your marriage for God's glory.

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Movie-themed dinners… Cool ideas!

Thank you for sharing!

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    Debi Walter

    Thanks, Jason. Are you planning to choose one for this Saturday?

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    Debi Walter

    Thanks, Jason. Glad to share!!
    Debi

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Really great ideas. I really loved how you combined the themes of the movies w/ the dinners. How creative!!

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    Debi Walter

    Thank you, Bradley. I’m so glad you’ve found my ideas helpful. There are countless other films that have food in them, like Julie and Julia. It makes for a fun night that you’ll never forget. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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We have a fireplace by out TV, so we have placed a tablecloth on the floor along with some cushions and have had a picnic watching a movie of choice. Adding a meal theme to this that corresponds with the movie sounds fun.

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    Debi Walter

    Phil,
    Wonderful idea to do an indoor picnic. We, too, have a fireplace in our living room by the TV. We’ve taken a card table and set it up fireside and made it a very intimate dinner table for two. We’d love to hear what movies you come up with to correspond to your picnic date.
    Happy Valentine’s Day,
    Debi

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You have such creative ideas! Great thoughts for married couples.

I approached the subjest a bit differently based on several years of dating my bride! http://wp.me/p50Bqq-6m

It is always a pleasure to see what you have posted.

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    Debi Walter

    Jerry,
    Thank you for sharing an excellent link to your post. Your years of experience is so helpful to those coming up behind you. What a blessing it is to have older couples who are willing to share with younger couples how to navigate romance in the midst of raising a family and building a career.
    Blessings,
    Debi

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