Green Sex, Anyone?

When I read an article on Natural Family Planning today in the online edition of Time Magazine, I knew I had to respond with a post here at Engaged Marriage.
First of all, I was delighted to see NFP discussed in a national magazine! With the creation of this site and the obvious interest I have witnessed about Natural Family Planning, my antenna is probably a bit more in tune to the coverage of the topic online. However, I see an article like this (however flawed it may be in some respects) as a breakthrough in spreading the message that Natural Family Planning exists as a responsible option.
The article actually does a pretty good job of describing NFP at a high level and letting the Average Joe or Jane know the basic premise behind the method (for more info check out a previous post here at EM). And I am sure the author’s experience in the Pre-Cana program is a common reaction to an initial introduction to the topic. My wife and I have heard similar reactions in the marriage preparation courses we have taught.
Natural Family Planning Informational Video
I recently discovered a great six-minute video that highlights the benefits of Natural Family Planning and addresses some of the primary misconceptions about NFP. This video was produced by the Catholic Diocese of Phoenix. Obviously, it includes some Catholic beliefs and teachings, but I think that you will find it informational even if you do not share the Catholic faith.
I really think there is a lack of this type of information/promotion for Natural Family Planning available in social media circles, so maybe we can do something about that! In the meantime, please enjoy the video and check out my previous post entitled “What is Natural Family Planning?” for more information.
What is Natural Family Planning?

If you read my introductory post on Sex & Family Planning, you already know that my wife and I practice Natural Family Planning. We are passionate about this topic and actually feel like it is one of the best things that has happened to our marriage.
One of the inspirations behind starting this website was a desire to spread the word about NFP and let other couples know about it.
While I would be happy to actually motivate others to try it in their marriage and ecstatic to hear from even one couple that becomes regular users of this method as a result of this site, my primary goal is simply to inform others about Natural Family Planning so they become aware of it as an option.
So, let’s use this post to just start with the basics.
So, Just What is Natural Family Planning?
Simply put, Natural Family Planning is fertility awareness; the knowledge of when a woman is fertile and when she is infertile. We will discuss the specifics in later posts, but basically a woman is only fertile for a few days during each menstrual cycle. If you can reliably identify those days, you can either avoid or achieve pregnancy…naturally.
Marriage, Sex and Family Planning

If there is one subject related to marriage that I love to talk about, it’s sex!
Don’t worry (or be disappointed depending on how warped your mind may be), I am not referring to anything dirty or inappropriate here. Instead, I am talking about how healthy sexuality should play a key role in a vibrant and successful marriage.
Of course, it is difficult to talk about sexuality and marriage without also discussing the issue of family planning and decisions related to bringing children into this world. Good news! I also have a passion for this subject and feel like I can offer a great deal of practical and hopefully comforting advice on this topic.
It just so happens that my wife and I are regular presenters on the topic of Sexuality and Family Planning in the marriage preparation class offered by our church. In fact, it was our involvement in this program, along with our interaction with many engaged and married couples, that inspired the creation of the Engaged Marriage blog and website.












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