Should You Have to Talk Yourself Into Sex?

So let’s say you don’t really like sex in your marriage. You maybe even would go so far as viewing it as a “necessary evil” – something you “have” to do to keep the peace. But you pretty much hate it. And you find yourself having to “talk” yourself into sex.   Not surprisingly, a vicious […]

5 Ways to Heal After Your Spouse’s Pornography Addiction

For some, pornography might not seem like a big deal—who doesn’t look at it? But the truth is pornography is addictive and can lead to serious problems down the road. Pornography and sexual addiction can have a devastating impact on your relationship. Research has shown that 56% of divorce cases involved one partner having an […]

Is Your Marriage Beyond Sexual Repair?

I tend to be in the camp that no marriage is beyond repair as long as two people are still in it. I’ve heard from couples who have gone literally years with dysfunctional patterns (sexual and otherwise), yet at some point, something compels them both to move toward each other and heal the disconnect. Maybe even grow closer sexually […]

When You Crave Sex More Than He Does

I am a wife with a high sex drive. Some people would say that trait puts me in an incredibly small minority. But word to the wise, there are more of us out there than you may realize. I do hear from women who would love more sex with their husband — and they are baffled […]

Finding Time for Sex

Have you encountered times in your marriage where one or both of you wanted to have sex, but there just wasn’t time or energy for it? Here’s how to find the time for great sex in your relationship.